Attract Abundance & Wealth By Aligning With Feminine (Yin) Energy
In the previous blog we discussed how. to use Yang/Masculine energy and the power of Feng Shui to attract full-spectrum abundance and wealth. But did you know that you can also become a money magnet / manifestation machine simply using the power of your mind and heart.
We discussed various ways to align with Source energy, and now it's time to align with Self!
In Human Design, the abundance gate holds the energy of being RECEPTIVE. This means to create more money you often have to learn to surrender, allow, “let go” and wait, which is counter-intuitive to what most of us have been taught…
In fact, the very question “How do I manifest more money?” comes from a masculine place of striving and pursuit.
You've probably tried the countless strategies recommended for “getting in alignment” and "changing your mindset” on your journey to manifest the life you desire. But it's important to remember that there is no single "frequency of money" or "frequency of the Quantum". There is no-one-sized-fits-all way to manifest abundance.
Self-healing is an integral part of attracting and building wealth- incorporating supportive and holistic practices and tools to expand your energetic frequency to one of abundance and love, not scarcity or fear.
“The way we do money, is the way we do everything.”
Learning how to trust your inner voice can. be difficult when we've be so conditioned to respond to things outside of us. Aligning with Self requires that you surrender the belief that being “reasonable” is the best way to create success and abundance. Truth is, if reasoning was such an effective tool for creating abundance, most of us wouldn’t be struggling.
Get ready to match the frequencies of wealth through Feminine rituals of receiving, reflection, intuition, healing and celebration. Call in your highest self and magnetically bring more money into your life! .
UNDERSTAND YOUR MONEY RELATIONSHIP
Having deep self-awareness and acceptance can allow you to
understanding how you think, feel and behave financially.
earn more money based on your natural strengths and unique gifts
overcome money challenges and blockages
KNOW YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE
The Attachment Theory of psychology can help you examine the spending and savings patterns that were modeled by your earliest caregivers, thereby shaping your own fears and behaviors around money.
AVOIDANT - negative view of money + self, an aversion to improvement or development of wealth or self, a denial of reality
ANXIOUS - positive view of money vs negative view of self. Low confidence and self esteem limits their potential with money
DISMISSIVE - negative view of money vs positive view of self. Low perceptions about money, closed off to new opportunities for future
UNDERSTAND YOUR MONEY MOTIVATIONS
Why do you desire money? Knowing your values and associations with money is important step in understanding your spending patterns and setting intentions for the future. Within these are different money "personality" archetypes which identify how how you think, feel and behave financially.
LOVE- a desire to bring joy, lightness or relief to others or self. You want to spend recreationally and to boost mood or relieve fears or anxieties. The possible downside of this "retail therapy" is that the benefits are often fleeting and can result in frequent over-spending or living outside of one's means.
The Nurturer / Sponsor - Puts others before self.
The Connector / Networker - You put people and relationships first.
FREEDOM - a desire for autonomy and adventure. You want to feel independent and self-sufficient, having many choices, options and opportunities, living on your own terms, unbound by convention. The possible downside of "thrill seeking" motivation is that money could be used as a tool to escape obligation and provide a sense of thrill, rather than a device to enrich their consumer desires.
The Alchemist / Idealist - Transforming situations with money magic.
The Maverick / Rebel - Unpredictable and more risky with money
SECURITY- a desire for safety and protection. You want to feel in complete control and confidence, not worrying about the future, assuring all needs are met. The possible downside of this is minimal risk-taking or spending for enjoyment, focusing on strict budgeting, saving, reducing debt, making investments.
The Accumulator / Banker - You have a natural ability to create financial stability.
STATUS- a desire to impress others. You want to feel admired/envied/respected/recognized, spending on luxuries and top-tier goods and experiences. The possible downside of this value is that it is very superficial and vanity-based.
The Celebrity / Big Shot - Spends money to enhance self-image or status.
The Romantic / Hedonist - Always in pursuit of luxury and comfort
POWER - a desire to influence change. You want to achieve your goals through planning and acting, feeling successful, driven and ambitious. The possible downside of power-seeking is that if morals are not in alignment to the greater good, this could lead to abusive or patriarchal dynamics.
The Ruler / Builder - Thrives on creating, innovating and producing something of value
HEAL YOUR MONEY RELATIONSHIP
Practicing shadow work and getting to the root of past traumas and wounds around money is crucial in reprograming and writing new future of abundance and wealth.The practice of forgiveness and accepting responsibility for your actions is an essential reminder to the fact that we are the author of our narrative. Everything that has happened up until this point is a result of our choices, both conscious or unconscious. From here, we can make decisions from a place of truth and authenticity.
ACCEPT YOUR SHADOWS & SCARS
Try as you may to separate and release them, also love and befriend them. Your deepest fears and insecurities are an important part of you, and only toxic if you let them hold you back. This step is essential because it draws attention to the internal demons that hinder your progress. The only way to overcome the shadow of doubt in your mind is to identify it first, acknowledge its existence, and undo it with compassion and love.The love you show this emotion returns to you and opens your heart to receive.
RELEASE THE PAST
The energetics of abundance, resonating with universal love and light, involves both manifesting/attracting AND surrendering/offering. There are various spiritual and somatic practices that can support you in finding closure and completion from the past and heal our money wounds and scars so that we can move forward with success.
VISUALIZE (or literally re-enact) shedding former layers of your self and subsconscious so that you can fully step into the next chapter of your life - completely cleansed, refreshed, renewed and resolved.
EXHALE and detach from the old: limiting beliefs, past conditioning, negative self talk, stress/worry, myths/illusions about poverty, scarcity or lack, survival mode, past stories, patterning, ego/lower self.
INHALE and embody the new: positive self talk, dreaming and doing, abundance consciousness, thrive mode, self-worth, financial wealth identity, higher self,
OFFER foods and gifts to your ancestors who may have had struggles with money, extending forgiveness and compassion.
PRACTICE E.F.T or Tapping to process and release negative narratives
REPEAT AFFIRMATIONS about a healthier, more productive past which will align with your desired future.
REWIRE YOUR CONDITIONING
It's imperative to rewire your mental patterns and habitual thoughts - any that carry doubts, shame or guilt, or imply struggle or fears.
Free your mind of any negative, unhelpful or limiting thoughts that conflict with your desire such as...
"you do not deserve this life"
"none of your family members live luxuriously, why should I?"
"you are fine and have enough already - why are you still not satisfied?"
Our conditioning likely tells us that we should accept the bare minimum, limiting ourselves and shying away from appreciating and loving money so as not to appear garish or extravagant. Rid your mind of these self-defeating thoughts and convince yourself that you are worthy of the best, grandest things in life.
Repeatedly write or say to yourself that opposite of the belief you hold. Affirm that you have let go of limiting thoughts for good. Do this frequently, until you feel less and less resistance in your subconsciousness.
Money is the currency of self-worth! Practicing self-love, compassion and understanding your own value is the #1 key in attracting abundance. You must whole-heartedly believe you deserve success, greatness and fabulosity. You must feel worthy to be wealthy!
NURTURE YOUR BODY
Wealth and health are nearly impossible to separate. Your money-attracting abilities are directly tied to your personal energy, your health! Of course, healthcare costs money, and making money is a lot easier and simpler when you're healthy. Prioritize preventative medicine and healthy habits like a balanced diet, exercise, or sleep.
RELAX YOUR MIND
Through meditation, breathework, hypnosis or other mindfulness exercises. Once you've stated your desire, then it's important let that desire go and permit abundance into your life. This act of detachment and release frees your mind of any resistance caused by doubt or contradicting beliefs.
BOOST YOURSELF UP
Be your own best friend and cheerleader. We must learn to treat ourselves with compassion, patience and encouragement. Daily self-love talk and mirror affirmations go a long way! Motivational playlists, books and podcasts are a great source for positivity too!
PRACTICE OPENING & EXHALING THE BODY
You will only receive what you feel safe to receive. And feeling safe is an inside job, but can be practiced somatically. Using deep tissue massage, yoni egg, pelvic floor exercises or other feminine healing practices, you can begin to heal your nervous system so that it softens, opens, releases and trusts more. Stop holding tension in the body. Aim to move through life with an open heart and surrendered body so you can manifest what you're meant to.
Diffuse or inhale high-vibe scents that are associated with wealth and prosperity: citrus, cinnamon, rosemary and frankincense, myrrh, patchouli, palo santo, sandalwood, rose.
AFFIRM BY DESIGN
Look at your Throat Center in your Human Design chart and see if there are any defined gates or channels, meaning your energy flows most naturally here. Each of the gates in the throat has a unique and different voice. Try changing the root or stem of the affirmation to connect with the right words/phrasing for you, which change it's energy frequency and thus manifestation potential. Which ones FEEL best to you based on your chart?
62: "I think my life is abundant"
23: "I know my life is abundant"
56: "I believe my life is abundant"
35: "I feel abundant"
12: "I am capable of abundance"
45: "I have abundance"
33: "I remember the feeling of abundance"
8: "I contribute by being abundant"
31: "I lead by being abundant"
20: "I am abundant now"
16: "I identify with abundance"
LIVE IN THE END
A common limiting belief is that you must must "get rich" in order to be financially free... to be able to live/be/do what you want, when you want, how you want. And in order. to get rich you have to work hard. You then put all your energy into making as much money as possible, but this masculine approach actually creates the opposite of what you want: stress, exhaustion, and a lack of time. When you're burned out energetically you stop attracting new opportunities and instead attract stagnation and stillness.
So what if we reverse-engineered this. Focusing on freedom and fulfillment FIRST? Remember all of the areas of your life where you already are wealthy (health, family, career, etc). See what magic unfolds when you "live in the end", with the feeling of complete security and enough-ness because you have begun to define success YOUR way, around YOUR values.
No sacrifice or struggle necessary!
CHANNEL YOUR INNER CHILD
PLAY money games for abundance - finding coins, cashing checks
DANCE or sing along to a playlist of Yang (empowering, energizing, high-vibe) songs about wealth and abundance. Activate even more feminine energy by doing this in the mirror!
IMAGINE whatever color you most associate with wealth and visualize it washing over your body, and through every part of you. Gently and compassionately, it even settles over the parts of you still in resistance.
DECORATE your community and the world with symbols of wealth such as coins, or $1 origami butterflies, each anointed with essential oils and intention or prayer.
CONNECT WITH SPIRIT & HIGHER SELF
Spirit, universal wisdom, does not worry about money - so why should you?
LISTEN TO INTUITION. It's time to getting out of your head and into your embodied wisdom. We all have a unique way of making decisions, and connecting to our intuition, our true inner knowing. What does that sacred "yes" feel like to you in your body? Your mind will limit you, your heart however, has the ability to open up to what is truly possible and attract that into your life.
OPEN TO RECEIVING EFFORTLESSLY. Position yourself to receiving without earning, hustling, grinding and every other masculine action that society has conditioned us to think is required of building wealth. Release yourself from the pressure around money, in order to manifest. So if strict and formal budgeting and some other masculine money practices actually creates a lot of stress and tension in your body, then skip it! Lean into the flow, the energetics and embodiment instead: Energetically saving, spending, investing, and receiving.
ASK FOR SUPPORT. Solicit your spirit guides, angels and ancestors for support, wisdom, focus and clarity through the power of gratitude. Avoid using the word "want" as that embodies a feeling of lack. And do not be desperate, impatient or expectant as each carry scarcity energy that can work against you. Practice true heart-centered gratitude and appreciation and eventually you'll be able to call upon it on demand. and status sends signals to the universe, which in turn delivers" more abundance to your life. It'll feel like you're receiving rather than earning. Thank them for
wealth in the fastest, highest timeline possible.
barriers to your success be removed.
meeting all of your needs (even if deep down you do not feel they're met yet.)
COMMUNICATE WITH MONEY. Similarly to the above you can communicate with the Spirit of Money. Start a conversation and let it know how you plan to welcome it specifically for good.
"Money, if you come to me, you will become anything and everything we want on the menu! You will become the delicious wine we drink, the incredible food we eat, the appreciation we give our server, and the host of the celebration we are having. We are going to have so much fun and I am excited you are on your way to join us!"
VIBRATE WITH WEALTH
We each carry a personal "wealth frequency" - unique to us and only us. Once you crack that code, the world of opportunity and abundance opens. You can then create your reality, your vision of prosperity in your own special, heart-centered way.
LIVE BY DESIGN
Our ability to make money is directly connected to the self-worth centers in the body, the G-center and Heart. Human Design can teach us to invest in our selves: learning, growing, developing and doing the things that light us up and feed our soul. Also it reminds us to reaffirm that we are beyond deserving of greatness.
Every HD type has a human birthright to abundance. We're all here to FEEL wealthy, regardless of the actual amount in your bank account.
We each came here with a unique, blueprint - a very distinct frequency that allows us to feel and receive abundance in our own way.
Manifestors: The frequency of peace.
Generators: The frequency of satisfaction
Projectors: The frequency of success.
Reflectors: The frequency of surprise.
Each of these are feelings demonstrate how you experience abundance personally. And these feeling are fully and readily available to us every day, with barely any effort OR a single penny to invest.
When you align with this unique personal wealth code/ vibration you automatically begin to shift into a more passive, receptive mode. You start to do work that makes you happy and fulfilled. Your heart fills, and your mind quiets because everything in life begins to fall into place, feel good ….and from that place of FREEDOM abundance finally flows.
The key is to live & serve others intentionally from our zone of genius and to trust that the right amount of money will always find you in the right time. THAT is the key to full-spectrum wealth: getting clear on your soul's mission, your life's purpose, your golden path and aligning with your signature frequency. So follow your type's wealth theme! Simply do what you love, and the rest will follow!
CREATE A MONEY JOURNAL OR "GRIMOIRE"
Writing, through journaling, lettering, scripting and spell-binding, is a powerful manifestation tool. It challenges us to go inward and be brutally honest with our selves. Establishing clarity/truth and authenticity/acceptance about our past, present and future, our full-spectrum desires. and is one of the key foundations of full-spectrum wealth creation.
List of light (strengths, talents, skills) vs shadows (flaws, imperfections, weaknesses)
List of limiting beliefs and then their abundance alternatives
Letters of forgiveness for old money patterns.
Wishlists lists- manifestation bagua (I AM, I HAVE, I FEEL)
EFT Tapping Scripts
Affirmations of self-worth and compassion
Future "to-do" lists (as if you have already achieved your wealth goal- what are you doing, buying, etc?)
RAISE YOUR WEALTH CEILING
Write various levels of money that you're interested in manifesting onto a piece of paper. Using a dowsing pendulum, see which level has the most noticeable reaction. This is likely the level that you're currently attracting, or just above. So keep working (through EFT, inner child and shadow work) on breaking down the inner blocks to those higher levels.
BE YOUR WEALTHIEST SELF
Be the person you aspire to be - live with expectancy and assumption that it's already happened, today - not in some distant unknown future.
Create a "mock" /fantasy bank statement or money management spreadsheet to depict the bottom line of what your desired checking, savings, and investment accounts will look like. Even write itemized "wish lists" of items or opportunities you've spent on. When you can mentally grasp the big picture of the amount of wealth you're manifesting, that amount - which previously felt unfathomable or intimidating, feels much more natural and practical. It also shows the universe how responsible and ready you are!
Feel wealthy from the inside, out! Picture a specific image or something you associate with great wealth and complete execution. It can be something tangible, experiential or material - or simply a feeling of inner safety and warmth. Get very specific with your vision, and embrace it as a full-body sensory experience inside of you. Hold and carry that feeling throughout your day and these thoughts will begin to translate to your physical reality. Envisioning the goals creates a space for you to enjoy the emotional benefits of success without having to wait for the reality of it.
Don't limit yourself - dream big! What do you want, what would your life look like once you're thriving in abundance, well beyond 'survival mode"? Adopt the inner dialogue of your future self - would they be consumed with thoughts of worry, stress, or ones of peace and privilege? Adopt all of their thoughts of ease and joy, and of course- gratitude!
BELIEVE IN YOUR SUCCESS
Know that you have more an enough for your hearts desires, and that you'll be overflowing to share this abundance when called to. Know you have everything you need and are taken care of, and that everything beyond that is icing on the cake. Trust that the flow of money will always come and go exactly when and how it needs to. Don't think about the journey (the 'how'), just the destination (the 'what' and 'why'). Plant the seeds of your desired feeling and water them without obsessing or fixating on the when or how they will grow. Your job is simply to keep your mindset and income channels open.
CREATE SACRED SPACES
Creating sacred spaces and altars is a powerful way to call in Feminine energy. You can add a variety of transcendental, metaphysical or traditional cures to call in more money. Altar space can be an extremely powerful tool in manifestation work. Consider the following in the wealth gua of your home, or in individual rooms where you spend the most time:
ACTIVATE YOUR MONEY BOWL. Create a Metal, ceramic or wood bowl filled with the items below that resonate most. Make sure to nourish feed or rearrange your money bowl regularly - constantly adding new additions so it's energy doesn't fall stagnant.
A gold, green or purple candle etched with a money sigil and anointed with an essential oil that. you associate with abundance
Crystals of citrine, pyrite, amethyst- charged under new moons and full-moons.
Chinese gold coins or mystic knots
Cinnamon stick rolled in glitter
Bay leaves with abundance-related words in gold pen
Other accents: A money butterfly, small round mirror, pearls, sand dollar, wallet or credit card.
IMPLEMENT TRADITIONAL WEALTH CURES
Animals: Jade money frog/three-legged toad or "dragon turtle/tortoise" statues, goldfish bowl, artwork depicting dogs, cats, or horses
Symbols: gemstone tree, bonsai tree, clear vase or bowl filled with gold painted acorns, money management books, laughing buddha statue,
CREATE A WEALTH VASE: This should be a solid/ceramic container stored out of sight. Fill with symbolic items of wealth and prosperity:
Business cards, unused lotto tickets, a faux check for. large sum, copy your credit score (either your existing score if it's strong, or one you're working towards, etc),
Glitter, magnets, foreign coins or cash
Salt, dried rice or lentils, glitter, cinnamon, rosemary
BUILD AN ABUNDANCE FOLDER OR WALL.
Desires: Vision board of images or graphics of your future life,
Gratitudes: Keep a list or photo collage of all the things that are working in your favor. Add to it weekly. Whenever something triggering comes up look at the board to snap your thoughts back into a more productive cycle. The vibration of Gratitude is a powerful attractor.
PRACTICE MANIFESTATION RITUALS. Create rituals that involve the earth elements, moon cycles, the seasons and other rhythms of nature.
Ignite all stove burners in your kitchen for 9 minutes each week while meditating on the abundance coming to you.
Anoint your finger with cinnamon, rosemary or peppermint oil and trace a figure 8 on your credit or debit card
CHOOSE WISELY. When furnishing and decorating your home, don't forget to fill it with whatever YOU value, love and cherish. These special items, clothes, art, furniture, and housewares that "spark joy" emit powerfully positive Chi that is perfectly vibrationally aligned to you. Every time you keep something you don't fully align with, it lowers your vibration - and your homes frequency. So bring in more of what you love and let go (donate, sell, etc) what you do not.
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Erin is a certified feng shui consultant, energy healer, wellness coach and holistic growth strategist.
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